Christmas as a Pastor
Christmas was a couple weeks ago.I'm sure you knew that.
In our house it meant things like decorating cookies (or, more precisely, decorating the table… since that's where MOST of the sprinkles end up), getting a tree that is small enough to sit on top of a table (out of reach of the two year old) but large enough to sustain our decorations, and bouncing back and forth between Kate's Pandora station (Indie Holidays) and mine (Christmas Standards). It meant things like finding out which neighborhoods around here are the best for looking at lights, wondering if this would finally be the year when Dad (that's me) would hang some lights on our house (it wasn't), and scrolling Netflix to see if they've added any new Christmas movies (not so much). It meant things like almond roca from Kate's grandma, taking uber advantage of Amazon Prime's free 2-day shipping, and brand new Christmas jammies for the whole family.
We love Christmastime in our house. It's a special time of the year.
Of course, right alongside that, since I'm a Pastor, it also meant...
Two weeks straight of being gone almost every night, getting ready for a big Christmas production. Nights of Christmas fun being missed out on because of late night church-meetings. And having to be here, on Christmas Eve, almost all day and night, to put on our Christmas Eve Services.
Now, lest you read that previous paragraph and mistake it for complaining (which it wasn't), I'm not complaining. Seriously. I love what I do, and I love doing what I do during the Holiday Season.
But, as every Pastor Family knows, holidays just look different most of the time. In large part it comes with the job, and my wife and I have navigated those waters well over these past 10 years.
And yet, each time this past season that I started to feel a bit curmudgeon-y about Church and Christmas, I was reminded how much my family and I are loved by our faith community.
For instance, this year people in our church blessed our family with:
-Tickets to LegoLand -Gift cards for new clothes -Movie Passes -Extra holiday cash -Wine and other festive drinks (Thank you Adahber!) -More holiday cash -Encouraging notes at just the right time -More holiday cash -And more
For a family of 6, in Southern California, living off of one salary, it can be daunting going in to the Christmas Season. Thinking about gifts, and Santa, and stockings. But every year (and THIS year, especially) Kate and I are gobbled up in to the loving embrace of a church family that understands just how far a little bit of material-love can go at Christmas time.
And so this Christmas we got to spoil our kids with far more gifts than we normally would. Kate and I got to have fun shopping for each other when normally it's an afterthought (or not at all). All because people in our church, multiple people from multiple cross sections of the church, at different times and in different ways, reached out and loved on us.
I'm not sure, exactly, what the point of this post is.
Other than to say this:
Dear Missiongathering Family, from the bottom of Kate and mine's hearts, we say THANK YOU for your gifts this year. They blessed us more than you could know. And we needed it, more than you could know.
Being a Pastor at Christmas can be hard sometimes. But I wouldn't change it for anything. Because it is in the CHURCH where often times we can most witness the God-who-is-with-us: Emmanuel.