Following in the Way of Katniss: You Have to See the "Other"
It was my first foray in to the world of doing a talk based on a film and while it was quite the challenge to prepare for (pretty different than a "normal" talk) I will say I thoroughly enjoyed it! And I can't wait to do it again in a couple weeks with "Beasts of the Southern Wild."
One of the points I make in the sermon comes from the scene in the movie where Katniss auditions her battle skills for the gamemakers and potential sponsors. You remember that scene: she picks up her bow and arrow and lets loose an arrow at a target, but misses completely. The gamemakers/observers laugh it off and then go about their business (chatting with each other, eating, drinking) and completely ignore Katniss. They were unimpressed and dismissed her, so when she fired her next arrow and scored a bullseye no one even noticed or cared. Annoyed at such indifference towards her, she strings one more arrow but this time shoots it up at where they were all sitting, and fires it straight through an apple that was resting in the open mouth of a cooked pig.
This quite obviously got their attention.
They turn, half amazed and half terrified, and stare at Katniss. She merely says, "for your consideration," takes a bow, and then exits the arena.
In my sermon I use this scene as an example of creatively choosing a third way when people who are in power over you are ignoring you, oppressing you, or both: not Flight (passively walking away, sulking, and just accepting your lot), and not Fight (shooting arrows AT the people, picking off a few before you're arrested or killed yourself).
No, she choose a third way.
A way that, essentially said, "Here I am. Right here. And you have to SEE me. I won't let you ignore me any longer."
I think that this is, in the Kingdom of God, one of the primary ways that the divide between "us" and "them" begins to dissolve. When people actually "see" the other.
SEE the oppressed. SEE the forgotten. SEE the outcast and the outliers. SEE the ones society ignores. SEE the ones the church has scorned.
"Seeing" makes all the difference. Or, at least, it's a really good place to start.
When those who have power/wealth/privilege (the HAVES) remain isolated from those who have-not, then they can remain ignorant of what it actually means to be a have-not.
One of the questions I often pose to people who disagree with me, and are opposed to same-sex marriage or think that all expressions of same-sex attraction are a sin, is this: who do you know that is gay? What same-sex family have you taken the time to really get to know? Have you had them over for dinner? Have you gone to their house, and seen how they live, how they act, how they raise their kids?
Do you SEE them?
Of course, some people respond with, "oh I have lots of gay friends!"
Fine. That may (or may not actually) be true.
But most of the time the answer I get is silence. No response.
Because they have not gone out of their way to "see" the other.
It's easier, is it not, to sit in our comfy houses and continue with our non-messy lives. Where the world is easily dividable between "us" and "them."
Turning around and looking to SEE "them?" That's hard. That can take work. That can be scary.
But it is oh. so. important.
If you hold the position that gay people don't deserve equal rights like getting married, then I implore you to get to know a same-sex family. I'm not saying your minds will instantly change, but if you don't SEE them, then you are willfully choosing to remain ignorant, and you'll never understand that these are real people.
And for folks like me, who HAVE a degree of power/influence/privilege (i.e. i'm a straight/white/male), part of our challenge is to discover how we can be more like Katniss. How can we get people to SEE, without choosing violence? Without causing more hatred and animosity? What do creative "third ways" look like as we live out this desire to eliminate the us/them divide?